The book is Now available:
Finding Our Fire - Enhancing men's connection to heart, passion and strength
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For Men: to enrich their lives
For Women: to further understand men
For Therapists and Counselors: to understand what male clients donít say



"Finding Our Fire" is based on the Menís Inquiry Group which has been meeting monthly in person and on-line for over 10 years. In the Inquiry meetings, men explore  questions about their lives  that give new insights and new actions to take. The meetings have inspired men to enhance their relationships with their families, improve their jobs, and resolve old issues in their lives that previously held them back.  Questions explored in the Menís Inquiry have included: What does it mean to be a man today? How do you discover your purpose in life and live it while providing for your family? What type of son were you to your father? How do you keep love and passion alive in a long-term relationship?  

The book is a  multi-purpose tool:   it can simply enhance the individual reader's life, or it can serve to facilitate the formation of a men's group to support ongoing growth on a broader scale.  It also provides a much-needed impartial window into the inner world of men that seems to improve women's understanding of men and men's understanding of themselves.  The compelling questions  have had a powerful impact on the men whose responses are included in the book , and many of those who have seen  preview chapters are looking forward to enthusiastically using the questions in their men's workshops and seminars across the country.

"Finding Our Fire" speaks in the authentic voice of men helping men by simply contributing their own life experiences.  It is a true showcase of the emotional courage of men--something you do not hear much about in society today!  A portion of the proceeds from the book will go to support The Triangle Men's Center in NC and The Men's & Women's Inquiry. 

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Book size 6X9 with 396 pages: $19.95
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Audio of the First Book Signing and Launch of the book & about the Author.

Finding Our Fire is also available in Raleigh NC at Dancing Moon Books & Gifts

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New Men's Inquiry Blog about the book progress & other Inquiry info

Click here to hear a Radio Interview with Martin Brossman on The Men's & Women's Inquiry

  Also available is a Live Recording of The Men's Inquiry exploring the question "What does it mean to be a man of your word?"

This is a rare opportunity -- actually the first-ever -- to listen in on a live Men's Inquiry meeting. The topic -- "What does it mean to be a man of your word?"-- accurately represents the typical content of this compelling monthly discussion group. Here the participants are courageously exploring their lives around the themes of integrity, responsibility and marriage - expressing their personal insights and resulting commitments. It's a powerful recording. Male listeners may learn more about themselves, and women listeners may discover an aspect or two of men they have never seen before. It is difficult not to be moved by the authentic voices of 18 diverse men in what would normally be a confidential session. The session recorded here was a gift by these men to me on my birthday & the 10th anniversary of my founding the Men's Inquiry. The discussion, as usual, is frank and lively, and yes, contains some adult expressions.

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The Men's Inquiry Live Recording - Special Addition 2006

74 minutes Audio CD $12.95

  Front cover of the Live Men's Inquiry CD

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  Just the Questions!
Questions to Enhance Your Life and Guidance to Create a Men's Inquiry Meeting

A wonderful little pocket paper pack book ( only 4X6)

Drawn from the book:
Finding Our Fire - Enhancing menís connection to heart, passion and strength, including extra questions. This book contains "Just the Questions" included in Finding Our Fire plus 19 other chapters with further questions. It also contains information of creating your own Men's Inquiry meeting.  It does not contain any of the other men's comments. Both Men and Women have found these questions useful.

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4X6 compact paperback with clear easy to read 12 pitch type only $9.95

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Model of The Maturing Man

A presentation by
Martin Brossman
on his model of the social process of men maturing and how this relates to relationships with women.

For women to further understand men.
For men to enrich their lives and relationships.
For dads to be better fathers.
For single mothers to support their sonís becoming mature men


"I listened to your CD (Model of a Maturing Man)- Wow!
I couldn't have gotten it at a better time! As I transition to fatherhood and struggle with business, I could relate to your words. I am very much impressed with the depth and breadth of your knowledge!"



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To purchase a copy of any of these products by check, money order or phone contact us at with the book/CD you want in the comment line and your address and phone number. If you are in the US you can send me a check for $25.95 (Book + Shipping) to Martin Brossman 4441 Six Forks Rd. Suite 109-251, Raleigh . North Carolina 27609 (will arrive in ~3 to 4 days). Or international $28.95 and receive your copy in 10 to 12 days. Let me know
if you want it signed and how you want your name spelled.

If you want a CD of the live recording of The Men's Inquiry too just $14.95 to the check (e.g.. $38.90 in the US and $41.90 international).  To buy "Just The Questions" that cost $15.95 in the US and $17.95 outside (Take 3 dollars off that price if it send with the book "Finding Our Fire). I also can take credit cards over the phone as well, just mention that that is what you want to do in the note am we will call you back. If you have any questions please call me at (919) 847-4757 Thanks!

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